22.12.05

Try to follow this directions (specially you)

La columna original es de Mary Schmich y la publicó en su espacio de "The Chicago Tribune" el 1° de junio de 1997. Posteriormente, Baz Luhrmann hizo la versión en CD con arreglos musicales (buena idea eso de ponerle música a un discurso). Total, esto fue lo que quedó. Se lo dedico a ciertas personas, no estaría mal que se pudieran entender muchas de las cosas que Schmich propone; sobretodo hago énfasis en la parte de los amigos:
Wear sunscreen.
If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it. The long-term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists, whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience. I will dispense this advice now.

Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth. Oh, never mind. You will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they've faded. But trust me, in 20 years, you'll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked. You are not as fat as you imagine.
Don't worry about the future. Or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubble gum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind, the kind that blindside you at 4 p.m. on some idle Tuesday.
Do one thing every day that scares you.
Sing.
Don't be reckless with other people's hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours.
Floss.
Don't waste your time on jealousy. Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind. The race is long and, in the end, it's only with yourself.
Remember compliments you receive. Forget the insults. If you succeed in doing this, tell me how.
Keep your old love letters. Throw away your old bank statements.
Stretch.
Don't feel guilty if you don't know what you want to do with your life. The most interesting people I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives. Some of the most interesting 40-year-olds I know still don't.
Get plenty of calcium. Be kind to your knees. You'll miss them when they're gone.
Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll divorce at 40, maybe you'll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary. Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much, or berate yourself either. Your choices are half chance. So are everybody else's.
Enjoy your body. Use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it or of what other people think of it. It's the greatest instrument you'll ever own.
Dance, even if you have nowhere to do it but your living room.
Read the directions, even if you don't follow them.
Do not read beauty magazines. They will only make you feel ugly.
Get to know your parents. You never know when they'll be gone for good. Be nice to your siblings. They're your best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.
Understand that friends come and go, but with a precious few you should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle, because the older you get, the more you need the people who knew you when you were young.
Accept certain inalienable truths: Prices will rise. Politicians will philander. You, too, will get old. And when you do, you'll fantasize that when you were young, prices were reasonable, politicians were noble and children respected their elders.
Respect your elders.
Don't expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund. Maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse. But you never know when either one might run out.
Don't mess too much with your hair or by the time you're 40 it will look 85.
Be careful whose advice you buy, but be patient with those who supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia. Dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it's worth. But trust me on the sunscreen.
Bonito, ¿no? La escuchaba ayer en el coche, mientras salía de Perisur después de desayunar con Silvia. Por cierto, gracias de nuevo por esos DVD's, te la volaste...Bueno, el caso es que la lean las veces que sea necesaria y, más que aprendérsela, síganla.

Luis (con una gripa y tos de MIEDO)

4 comentarios:

J. F. Santoyo dijo...

Recuerdo que me pusiste a escuchar alguna vez este discurso, bastante cierto y bastante propio, espero ser uno de los que están en esa lista de la dedicatoria, y pues, bueno, que se te alivie esa gripa y un abrazo desde la gélida (jajaja) Morelia de Santoyo, amigo.

Anónimo dijo...

hey!! this man talk about me...
except about my knees, i don't care about them...

i want to say how i love life today... what a day! full of so many great things...

thanks god, i love my life.
thanks Luis, i love your words.

Ada dijo...

WHOA, Adoro tu blog !!!! :D

Luis Vargas dijo...

jajaja Thank you Nina, I also love your words. I found awesome to have readers from all around the globe. But not only readers, also readers with a HEART.

ADA ARWEN, muchas gracias, como le decía a Nina arriba, es sumamente gratificante encontrar lectores que no tengo la fortuna de conocer personalmente pero que sus palabras resultan motivantes para seguir escribiendo. No se si sepas del placer que encierran las palabrs que dedicas para alguien que ama las palabras como lo hago yo... Gracias, después de todo, esta página está hecha para ustedes y también por ustedes.
LUIS